Showing posts with label Megara. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Megara. Show all posts

Monday, March 16, 2009

It's A Brand New Week With A Brand New Attitude

I hate to start off a blog saying how tired I am but OMG I am soooo tired!

Prince Charming and I just watched last week’s Battlestar Galactica and are wondering how the heck they are going to be able to resolve everything in the 2 hour series ender on Friday. I still can’t believe that they canceled that show! When there are shows called Rock of Love Bus and I Love Money that are getting renewed. Sheesh!

I was a much better eater and exerciser today and I spent the better part of the afternoon cutting up veggies so that they would be ready for a quick snack or salad. I even cooked and cut up a package of chicken breast so that I would have some available for lunch this week. I have decided that having good food handy for those times when I just want to grab something will help.

I exercised 2 hours today: 1 hour of cardio and 1 hour of strength. I also walked a few miles in the park with Boop-a-do. Yea! Back on track! Although I was sooooo tired for the rest of the day. I guess that I must not have licked this anemia thing because it just wasn’t that much for how tired I ended up.

I ate great today too: Oatmeal for breakfast, a hearty salad for lunch and a nice sandwich for dinner.

All-in-all a good day! I hope that yours was also.

Ella

PS Megara, I have been taking pictures I just haven’t posted them yet. I will get them uploaded tomorrow.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

My Confession

I have a confession to make. I have been eating like an idiot. I don’t think that I have eaten a salad in days. Vegetables? What are they?

Here I am telling Megara to get back on track and I am right down in the mud with her. What a hypocrite!

It is time to start food and exercise journaling again.

So, tomorrow, I will begin and I will post it too for the entire blogging world to see (or at least those of you that read it).

That’s all. I am going to go and clean the junk out of my fridge now.

Have a terrific day!

Ella

Monday, March 2, 2009

Poo, Spam, and Guilt - Did I Really Have That Many Negatives In This Blog Post?

I was reading today about the woman who swallowed her engagement ring. Her fiancé hopeful put the ring in her Wendy’s Frosty. Instead of her finding the ring, she swallowed it.

This story is hilarious and sad on so many levels.
  • I am trying to imagine under what circumstances a wedding proposal at Wendy’s would be romantic. I hope that they met there at least so it has some redeeming qualities.
  • Even though she is a skinny little thing now I would be very, very wary. She scarfed that Frosty down so fast and was taking such big spoonfuls that she didn’t even feel the ring?
  • Or, maybe I shouldn’t be putting the blame on her for taking too big mouthfuls, perhaps it is because the ring was really, really tiny. Is this mean? Some people don't like big rings. From my point of view though I have to put it as a sad anyway.
  • And now for the most obvious one – No matter how cleaned up it is for the next 30, 40, 50 years she is going to know that there was poop all over that ring at one time. I don’t know that I would be able to get past the poop thoughts to love the ring. Maybe the romance of being proposed to in the hospital by an x-ray picture of a ring takes that away. You can think of it in the clean film of an x-ray not the filth of a colon.

IKK!

On a totally other topic I have to admit that I had a little (totally teeny) rant today (besides this one). I was reading Megara’s blog and noticed that she had a comment. I was so happy that someone had commented on her excellent post. Then I read the comment. AKK! (Lots of KK! noises in today’s blog) It was a spam comment. It was some “guy” posting about some other blog and trying to generate business to that other weight loss blog. It was soooo rude. He hadn’t read Megara’s post at all. He didn’t wish her good luck and encouragement (as he was spammily encouraging us to do to this other gal but really was just trying to generate traffic to her blog – she is up for an award which makes her more appealing to get sponsorship) instead he just used Megara. I was so mad. If I could have tracked this ass down I would have sent him a nasty email telling him just what a putz he is. I was thinking about commenting on the blog site that we were being directed to but then I would be giving this jerk just what he wants. Instead I will have to content myself to ranting here (and on Megara’s site of course). Thank you for indulging me.

Before I got all sidetracked with stories of poopy rings and poopy spammers I was going to write about the reproachful “looks” that my Wii Fit Board has been giving me lately. I haven’t been on it in almost a week and OMG it is sitting there in front of the TV looking very accusatory and quite lonely. I don’t know how much more pressure I can take from it. It is haunting! Do you think that all Exercise equipment is like that and that is why we put them in the basement or spare room or somewhere out of our sight? I think that it might be. I seem to remember some pretty strong and accusing vibes coming from an exercise bike that I used to have (shudder). I think that we might have a good horror movie script idea in the making: Revenge of The Abandoned Stair Master may be coming soon to a theatre near you.

Have a Guilt-Free Day!

Ella

PS I was reading this post over and thinking that I was pretty mean in it and fairly negative. This isn't normally like me (I hope). I thought about rewriting it and then I thought "Why"? Maybe I needed to purge a little negativity for some reason. So, there, purged :)

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Surprise Surprise – Who Would Have Guessed?


I want to ask anyone who knows me whether they would consider me an “A” type personality or not? Before I started my "research" for this post I would have guessed that I would get an almost 100% rousing “YES – A for sure!”. But, wait! I’m NOT. No, really, I’m not. I just took some tests and that proves it.

It all started with a conversation today with Megara. Actually, I guess it started last week when Megara said that she never considered herself an “A” type personality (If you knew her you would have laughed too - old dopey me and my ignorance!). I would have bet that she was an “A” type … that is, until I did my own test and found out that I wasn’t an “A” type personality! So, now that I have done 3 of these tests I realize that I am, no joke, a certified TYPE B! Me!! Type B!! Who knew???

Then again, I think that I had a different idea of what an “A” type personality was. I guess that I never imagined that it was soooo extreme. Have I changed? Was I always really a mix or have I evolved that way? I must do more tests.

I would love it if you (yes that means you Megara) would do a few of these tests and let me know what your results are.

Here are some test sites (and my results from these sites):

http://discoveryhealth.queendom.com/type_a_personality_access.html

Results of Your Type A Personality Test

Personality Type
Your score = 41

What does your score mean?
You seem to be in the middle between the Type A and Type B personality. In this case, the middle ground is good. Your attitude to life is more of the "smell the roses" kind and you know how and when to relax. Nonetheless, you realize that picking up a challenge and competing a little bit for your place in the sun can add some spice to your life. The equilibrium is important, so don't let your hostile, aggressive, and competitive alter ego take over too often. Generally, you are easy to be around, and people tend to feel relaxed and comfortable in your presence. Yours is a very healthy attitude towards life.

http://www.queendom.com/tests/access_page/index.htm?idRegTest=1126

Score 35 / 100 (100 = A extreme)
Your interactions with others, while characterized by warmth and tolerance the majority of the time, may occasionally be tinged with impatience and hostility. When you’re stressed or frustrated, you may lash out at others or end up stewing in anger or frustration, but this is very rare. Since you generally trust others, you are usually willing to open up emotionally and value relationships for the sake of the people involved, instead of what they can do for you. This is fortunate because a high amount of this aspect of the Type A Behavior Pattern (TABP) can not only be extremely harmful to relationships, it is also very damaging to your health. While originally it was thought that global TABP was the culprit in coronary heart disease, research now shows that hostility, impatience, and other related traits are the real source of the problem. Based on your results here, you are likely not at a very elevated risk of heart disease, but keep in mind that there are other causes unrelated to the TABP, such as poor diet, lack of exercise, and smoking, among other things.

http://www.psychtests.com/tests/personality/type_a_r_access.html

Results of the Type A Personality Test -R

Your score = 48

What does your score mean?
You seem to have a Type B personality. Your personality draws characteristics from each of the other personality types, that is, Type A and Type C. Either you adjust your behavior depending on the situation, or you tend to be moderated in your attitudes. In any case, you are the most balanced of the three personality types.

Some Information About Type A and Type B Personality

According to scientific literature, Type A behavior is characterized by an intense and sustained drive to achieve goals and an eagerness to compete. Personalities categorized as Type A tend to have a persistent desire for external recognition and advancement. They are involved in various functions that bring about time restrictions. Such personalities have a tendency to speed up mental and physical tasks with extraordinary mental and physical alertness. These characteristics make for super-achievers and high-powered people.
Type A individuals can get a lot done and have the potential to really move ahead in the world. But there is a high price to pay. Certain components of such a personality can inhibit happiness and even threaten health. For example, the goals that Type A folks set are often poorly defined and therefore hard to achieve—a perfect recipe for misery.
Type A is also characterized by a general discontentedness and the impulse to be overly critical and demanding, even contemptuous of imperfection, in the self and others. This focus on negative aspects and the accompanying bursts of hostility and impatience result in guilt, remorse and anxiety.
Type A personalities are motivated by external sources (instead of by inner motivation), such as material reward and appreciation from others. Type A folks experience a constant sense of opposition, wariness, and apprehension--they are always ready for battle. And anyone can imagine how this constant (and very exhausting) existence would deplete reserves of contentment and happiness and disrupt personal equilibrium.
Although the literature is somewhat inconsistent because of problems with the conceptualization and definition of Type A behavior pattern, it has been linked to higher risks of cardiovascular diseases. The risks seemed to be reduced with intervention aimed at reducing Type A behavior. Indeed, those with a high Type A score would be happier and healthier if they were to file down the jagged edges of their personality. By learning how to control the negative behavior patterns while preserving their drive, Type A people can be successful without sacrificing their emotional well-being.
Type B behavior is usually defined as the absence of Type A behavior. Type B personalities are relaxed and have a laid-back attitude and posture. They are friendly, accepting, patient, at ease, and generally content. They are at peace with themselves and others. They show a general sense of harmony with people, events, and life circumstances. They tend to be trusting. They focus on the positive aspects of things, people and events. Type B folks are self-encouraging, have inner motivation, are stable and have a pleasant mood. They are interested in others and accept trivial mistakes. They have an accepting attitude about trivial mistakes and a problem-solving attitude about major mistakes. They are flexible and good team members. The Type B person is able to lead and be led.

Project 365 Photo of the Day

Today I decided to treat myself. I was only going to get an ice cream cone from Baskin & Robbins but then the clerk told me (no word of a lie) that the Chocolate Chip (the only B&R ice cream worth the calories - and it is sooooo worth it) ice cream was too soft. The quart cartons were my only choice (really, I HAD to!). And, they were 1 for $6 and 2 for $9. What would you do? If one of my goals is to be more protective of our money then I just had to get both. You have to agree (don't let me know if you don't). Anyway, here is the evidence (no I didn't eat both quarts already but, admittedly, I do feel a little sick from eating so much).




Sunday, February 1, 2009

Who's Afraid of The Big Bad Wolf?

I found out something today that just floored me. I found out that my friend Ms. Quasimodo has an extreme fear of embarrassing herself in public … and even a little in private. Now you might just say “Hey, me too! What’s the big deal then?” and you would be right because I can’t think of when I was just sitting around wishing for a good public embarrassment but this is a bit different or at least it seems different to me.

My friend, Ms. Q, hasn’t ever put on a costume (which precludes trick or treating which is a crime in my sugar-crazed eyes), she has never sat on Santa’s lap (why would my mother want me to sit with a strange man?), and she ever exercised in public (no gym for this gal) or even in front of her husband. Well, you could have bowled me over with a feather! If she only could see me in step class!! I mean if I am still the barometer for all things spastic in that class, even after 6 months, then I can’t imagine not being able to exercise … in front of your husband of 30 years no less! Really, I don’t know what to say.

My sister-in-law (not Megara who probably isn’t afraid of anything) recently revealed to me that she is afraid to travel by herself. Now, I have known this woman for 25 years, she has traveled all over the world (and back again … multiple times), she is an amazingly strong woman both physically and mentally and here I come to find out that she won’t travel alone! She is afraid of getting lost. She won’t even get on an airplane alone because the person that she is visiting might not be there to meet her and then she might get lost. She is TERRIFIED of this! And I never knew!!! I never suspected. It makes me kind of sad.

It does make me wonder what other deep fear-induced behaviors (or in this case, non-behaviors) are lurking amongst my friends and family (please feel free to share in the comments section … or, if your fear is public writing, then in an email).


As for me, I have a very, very strong fear of heights. I know that that is a pretty normal one but it is what it is. I remember when Pumpkin and I were in a church that was being renovated (I think that we were in Austria) and they had scaffolding set up so that you could climb up and look at the domed ceiling I got about 2/3rds of the way up and then started to cry. Yes, actual crying. I was soooo terrified and I had already climbed so far over my personal fear / height (especially when the stairs are grated so that you can see through) that my body actually made me stop by having me burst into tears. I will never forget it. If we had lived in that town I would have forced myself to climb up and down those stairs every day so that I would get used to it! No, really, I would have.

Any suggestions on how I can help my friends / family? Should I even try? Is it my business? Why would I? Why does it bother me so much when if I had heard that they were afraid of heights … or snakes … or other “normal” fears I wouldn’t have given it another thought? Hmmm…

Have a wonderful fear-free day!

Ella

PS Don't think that I forgot about my Picture of the Day! I just needed a bit of inspiration. I was going to photograph my filing cabinet as I have been filing today but I ended up taking a photo of my chicken soup. Yes, I am getting sick again!!! I can hardly believe it. I mean, wasn't I sick just a few weeks ago??? I have been feeling pretty weak this week as you know and quite drained of energy but I put it down to jet lag ... well, I did sort of. I had that niggly feeling in the back of my neck that it might be a bit more than that. And, sadly, I was right. So, hello Flu, goodbye Jet Lag ... and Hello Chicken Soup.


Sunday, January 18, 2009

I'm Not Unbalanced Just Uncoordinated!

I just love Japan. Every time I visit here my delight in the country is reinforced. I love cleanliness. I love the food but most of all I love the cuteness. The people are small and cute. They dress cutely. Their haircuts are cute. Many of the girls walk pigeon-toed in cute shoes /boots (cute because they are size 2 or 3 or some other silly and completely non-American adult number) and wear bum-skimming cheerleader-type skirts. Most of them are thin so they can pull off this look and still look cute. A lot of the girls have squeaky little voices – cute. They greet you as you walk into the store and hail you out of the store. They have stores full of cute things. As I love cute things it is paradise. I am off shopping today. I will report on the cute things that I buy tomorrow.

My sister-in-law has found some websites that help you find your Disney character. I did one quiz and came up with Gaston for me. I didn’t like that website very much!! I found another few and Prince Charming and I attempted to find out who we were. Prince Charming came up as Li Shang from Mulan and he does embody all the terrific characteristics of that character. I came up with Belle, Ariel, and Cinderella (I can live with that). As Prince Charming had already dubbed me Ella I will stay with her. Plus I think that I feel like Cinderella far more than the other two young ladies. Naturally, if I am Ella I must have my Prince Charming. And so, Prince Charming he stays.

My sister-in-law came up with Megara from Mulan. She had a number of “evil” choices. I want to know why I didn’t get some evil choices. Sometimes the evil characters are so much more interesting. I think that Megara is a terrific choice for her. Here is Megara’s description:
Megara is a heroine with attitude, Megara is always quick with a wisecrack. Although she begins her career as an assistant to Hades, she quickly falls for the hunky Hercules and refuses to sell him out to her evil boss. To save her new love, Megara must undo the deception she started. She is tough, witty, and resourceful.

I am going to send out an appeal for my friends and family to do the quiz and come up with their character. Or they can just pick their favorite. To find your own character go to the following websites:
Which Disney Character are You?: http://www.selectsmart.com/FREE/select.php?client=BrandosQuiz1
What Disney Female are You?: http://www.selectsmart.com/plus/select.php?url=Disney
There is also the quiz that categorized me as Gaston and Prince Charming as the White Rabbit at: http://www.youthink.com/quiz.cfm?action=go_detail&sub_action=take&obj_id=2492 (the answers are all male characters)

I had a lot of time on the airplane to think about my Wii. Hey, it was a long flight!!! (1 movie, 5 TV shows, 2 ½ books, multiple naps, and lots of time to think). I came up with a kind of sad / glad realization. I don’t think that I am unbalanced (as all the “Balance” exercises imply) I think that I am just amazingly uncoordinated. Here is my “proof” – let me know what you think. I did all of the Yoga exercises and scored either 3 or 4 stars (out of 4) and got tons of praise from the trainer for my good balance. I got praised in some of the strength exercises for my balance and strength. Then I did the “Balance” exercises and my poor little Mii hangs her head down almost every time. The verdict – Unbalanced. The difference between the Yoga “balance” poses and the Balance “balance” exercises is that in the Yoga poses you just have to do the pose and stay with your center of gravity concentrated in a yellow circle. This I can do creating tight little scribble circles of balance. In the Balance exercises you have to do things like Soccer ball headers (avoid the shoes and Pandas); Ski a slalom course; play a tilt-the-ball-in-the-hole game; Float Down the river in a bubble, etc. These all involve movement and coordination. Now, if you have seen me in step class or watched me trying to do even the Wii Basic step you would realize that I am not one of the most coordinated people around. It is something that I have come to peace with. In light of this revelation I am going to take heart in every little improvement in scores that I get and know that I might be finding my own personal Alzheimer’s cure with my Wii - Just one more reason to keep playing.

Have a wonderful day!

Ella